Hair Frustration

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Here is a selfie of my horrible hair, yes this is my all natural hair. The only thing I did to it was take it out of a bun that it was twisted up into after I washed it so that maybe, just maybe, it would be maintainable. I recently switched shampoos to the Tresemme Keratin Smooth shampoo and conditioner and I couldn’t be more disappointed in the lack of smoothness it has made my hair. There has been no improvement whatsoever. I had such high hopes for this set since I had heard good things about it and it was a flop. I would never recommend this to anyone.

So I am here today with a plea. I am at a loss for what to do with my hair. From the picture you can try and determine what type of hair I have for those hair gurus out there. Tonight I took it out of my bun and cried a little bit, I almost just want to cut it all of. It’s literally a bush and I don’t know what to do anymore. The only thing I can think to do is straighten it everyday, but heat is horrible for hair, and to be honest I don’t even know if that would last through the Pennsylvania humidity. The other problem with that is for some reason the to half of my head hair is very thick and the bottom half is kind of thin. This makes for a kind of awkward looking hairdo when I straighten it.

Please, I really would love some help with this problem. When I curl it all it does is frizz out and I’m at a loss for solutions.  What do you think about a pixie cut on me? I feel like I would have major hair loss remorse but if it would help I would maybe consider it. I need help and I’m desperate. Which is sad. I’m so insecure about my hair- insecurity post coming soon!

Also I know, two posts within like two hours. I just need help now. Someone please help me.

2 thoughts on “Hair Frustration

  1. Simplexvita June 7, 2014 / 11:14 pm

    Try deep conditioning your hair once a week for about three weeks and see if it helps with manageability. Also, when my (curly) hair gets frizzy I use hair mousse or Split End Defense Cream by Herbal Essences to add moisture, and easier styling without frizz. If your hair gets greasy like mine can with too much product, try using less. I hope this helps! :)

    • Mary June 7, 2014 / 11:15 pm

      Thank you so much for responding! I’ll have to try that, thanks!

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