People.

Ooo what an enticing title, I know, it’s great.Well first and foremost this is like old style Mary writing, not even starting until past midnight, such a winner. Anyway this post is about people I like I just didn’t want to make that the title and I can do what I want, okay? My blog, my thoughts, doing what I want. Sorry I don’t know where that came from.

Anyway, today I wanted to talk about people you just connect with. Hiba, from TryingNovelty who I interviewed a while back and I had been emailing and now we Facebook message and she’s just one of those people that I can talk to about anything. Like she sends me messages and I just think “oh my gosh that’s so me” I just connected with her so quickly and I wish she wasn’t so far away. 

Ask my parents, I’m not good with people, it takes a lot for me to connect with someone. Like Lindsay, one of my best friends in the whole world, let me just tell you the story of how I met Lindsay. I met her on the People to People trip on the plane, the second plane that we took to get to Ireland, the first plane we took was Lindsay’s first plane ride (I hope she doesn’t get mad at me for writing all of this) we ended up sitting together the second plane (I also hope this is making sense so far). So I sat by the window, then it was Lindsay and some random business man, mind you neither one of us has slept more than 3 hours. I think we said hi and introduced ourselves, it’s really a blur with the exception that she took out her headphones and they were covered in cheese. I must’ve given her the most disgusted look ever because she quickly explained that the pressure from the first plane made her crackers explode. She fell asleep before we even took off, I remember trying to show her Buckingham Palace from the sky but she was out. Like that’s not automatically clicking with someone, that’s me judging her for the first hour and a half of meeting her and then later deciding whoa she’s actually weird in the way that I can be best friends with her. 

I think when you click with a person right away it’s really nice because you can be friends with them immediately instead of wasting precious time to find out if you actually like them or not. On the other hand, just because you don’t click with someone right away it doesn’t mean they won’t be a great friend in the long run. 

That leads me to my final point, why waste your time with people you don’t get along with or click with ever? Cheating yourself from a friendship is one thing but being with people you don’t like is another. Only be with people who make you a better person and you truly enjoy the company of. It’s not worth your time to be miserable just to make other people happy. 

XOXO,

Mary.

 

P.S. I still hate the new WordPress format, if not more. 

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2 thoughts on “People.

  1. gettingthroughanxiety July 4, 2014 / 12:48 pm

    For the record, I don’t like the new WordPress either that much. Also, I totally agree with you about the whole connecting with people thing and only being friends with those you can trust, etc. I know one thing I can’t stand is when someone constantly complains about someone and yet still treats them like they are friends with them. If someone didn’t like me I wouldn’t want them acting like they did or acting like we were friends; I’d just want them to admit that they didn’t want to talk to me. People can be nice without acting like they are friends with someone. For example, one of my friends once talked to someone over the phone but then would say how she didn’t really like her. What’s the point then? I’m not saying that people should be rude to those they don’t like, but why act like you’re friends with them? I hope you have a great July 4th!

    • Mary July 4, 2014 / 10:18 pm

      It’s so annoying the wordpress I mean. YES YES YES I know people that do that all the time, and I understand that sometimes it’s okay (I’ve been in situations where it seems necessary, kind of hard to explain) but usually why would you talk to someone you don’t like? You too!

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