30 Day Blog Challenge: Day 13

blog challenge day 13

People in general are kind of a fascination of mine. I mean there are obviously certain people I find more fascinating than others but how people just interact with one another in general is just so interesting.

People are so different from one another, however, they’re so similar. While no one is the same, people are very similar. I like to see how people interact with one another because it doesn’t always make sense, even the way I interact with people doesn’t always make sense. Like couples hold hands but so do best friends, and that’s interesting to me, growing up I always thought it was a way to show  who you were dating but really it’s just another means of affection towards anyone. I also think the way friends talk to one another is interesting. At my dinner table we get very rowdy sometimes with our laughter and people trying to talk over one another and I find it simply hilarious. Like everyone has a different way of interacting with the next person.

I also find is really interesting how people act when they’re just alone. Like some people talk to themselves and it’s interesting how certain times I find that very creepy and other times I find it endearing. Other people (like myself) use their phones so that they don’t feel obligated to talk to anyone around them. Then there are the people I don’t understand but greatly admire who can just talk to anyone around them so they are no longer alone. It’s amazing that someone can just talk to anyone. I can write my feelings all I want but it’s hard for me to even verbalize to my friends and family. It is fascinating to me that there are people who can just talk to anyone about anything, I wish I was more like that.

There are specific people who fascinate me as well. Like I don’t want to go into detail about this guy who I never see talk and a lot of the time he’s alone but he just seems really interesting to me. I don’t know if you’ve ever looked at someone or just had a very brief conversation and all you want is to know everything about them? That’s how what I think about this guy, even though I’m never going to talk to him because it will ruin the aire of mystery he holds. There are just some people that I see and I’m very interested to know more about them. There’s a whole complex to these people that just look so interesting. It can be as somewhere as simple as a bookstore where you just see someone and want to know a lot more about them. People are so complex and I want to know so much about them.

Am I crazy or does anyone else feel this way?

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4 thoughts on “30 Day Blog Challenge: Day 13

  1. Simplexvita March 2, 2015 / 11:28 pm

    It is interesting how people interact with one another. I like to watch body language between students to see how comfortable they are around each other. I’ve noticed that students stand closer together and are more layed back further into the semester. But the vocal tones change when they speak to specific people in that group of close acquaintances. My friends are really touchy feely (arms around shoulders, hand holding as you mentioned) but I’m the most hands off compared to them. But once we sit down our limbs always overlap. But if you compare other friend groups their body language makes them appear as if they’re strangers instead of friends.
    Sometimes I do see people that give me the insatiable urge to speak with them. I wonder where that curiosity comes from though.

    • Mary March 3, 2015 / 12:58 pm

      I really find it fascinating. There are so many things that people do to be affectionate towards one another and it’s so interesting.

  2. gettingthroughanxiety March 3, 2015 / 12:14 pm

    Sometimes I too, see someone and wonder what they’re like. I like how you mentioned how in a way all people are alike and yet all different. I remember my theology teacher once saying how no matter where you go, people will always be the same; there are people that are nice and people who aren’t.

    I also find it interesting how some people can just go up to someone and just start talking, I’ve never really been able to do that or really wanted to. Also, like you, I’m much better expressing myself in writing than in person, especially when it comes to trying to describe my anxiety to someone.

    • Mary March 3, 2015 / 12:57 pm

      I like that “There are people that are nice and people who aren’t.”

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